[adult swim]

Wednesday, November 02, 2005



Some of the most interesting experiences one can have as an Adult is to indulge in a few habits that are so bad, yet feel so good. At 21, smoking and drinking is at your fingertips, and most people have indulged in this adult freedom before they even turn 21. So why is it, at 25, I have still have...


Shocked? I know. Hell, I haven't even had intercourse until 2 years ago. So why can't I just go ahead and take a few "social drinks", or "feel a little nice" once in awhile? Sure I can't sit up here and list all the health reasons, but one drink, or one pull won't hurt, and if anything I should try it once right?


At times I feel I want to, and it never has anything to do with "peer pressure". I want to know what it's like to be tipsy or feel a lil high, everyone talks about how good it feels. Plus it seems like everyone has a better time when there is alcohol in there system at a party. And what be so damn funny when people be smoking? I don't know MAN! I feel like I want to loosen up, and its not like I'm very shy when I go out, but I would love to know how it feels to lose all my inhibitions, at least once... but I'm kinda proud to be a good boy...


[what do you guys think?]


  • LOL, No your not to much of a good boy. I will say taking a drink aint so bad.....But smoking....is horrible.....The first and the only time I smoked....It was a horrible experience. Dont do it....But I am so shocked....you were a vigin until age 23.

    By Blogger Ya boy Maurice, at 8:37 PM  

  • Well smoking IS horrible. A drink( which will probably be some weak cocktail) want hurt you. Just make sure you're around people who'll look out for you if u do decide to get tipsy( got to learn your limit). Nothing wrong with being a good boy, you'll live longer.

    By Blogger lj, at 9:27 PM  

  • good boi? i would not go that far (j/k i do not even know you).

    there is nothing wrong with wanting to be a good boi, i have tried it time and time again. LOL

    drinking? i like drinking when the time is right and it is fitting for the environment. my first time drinking was due to peer pressure.

    now, smoking ... NAW BUDDY not for me!

    My advice to you, really sit down and think about why you want to do it. Then, if you realize what the reasons are for, find people you trust to assist you with your first time. That way if it goes bad, they have your back, will take care of you if it goes too far or you get sick and won't throw it back in your face if it is embarrassing (and maybe they will, but it will be all out of love -- you know how true friends are!)

    By Blogger *Madosi, at 6:05 AM  

  • Man, there is nothing wrong with being good. I rarely drink and I hate smoke. I have tried weed, but apparently I don't smoke it right, whatever. If smoking and drinking ain't for u, then it is what is.

    By Blogger K Kaos, at 9:24 AM  

  • If you already have a good time without the drinks or the smoking, then leave it be...it all affects everyone differently...you may not even feel anything...

    By Blogger Valentino, at 10:00 AM  

  • A good boy?!?! You?!?! Wow, well - don't mess w/that stuff - drinking nor smoking. It ain't good for ya, at all!

    You can find some other habits to indulge yourself with...trust me, they're a lot more effective!

    Coming Into Reality,

    By Blogger Jamal K. Franklin, at 10:27 AM  

  • A "Good Boy" is hard to find...

    I'm with you in your boat on the same ocean.

    I'm a "Good girl"--
    Don't drink
    Don't smoke
    Don't care too.

    I'm with Valentino on this...
    If it works
    Why try to fix it?

    My girls never pressure me to drink b/c they know I don't need it.

    They need to get "nice" before they can wild out on the dance floor--
    NOT ME!

    So keep doing what you're doing like you're doing it for TV!

    You are a rarity...Women love having something that is one of a kind.....

    By Blogger JenellyBean, at 2:52 PM  

  • I just realized your gay

    So substitute the word woman for men
    They both apply.


    By Blogger JenellyBean, at 2:54 PM  

  • You should get into the drinks man... an amaretto sour or a daiquiri wouldn't hurt. Nah, lemme stop. It's all good. You could jus be da dude chillin wit me at da bar sippin on a Shirley Temple... 1

    By Blogger FreekONature, at 3:23 PM  

  • Be good...its not worth being bad. Nothing wrong with experimenting things, because that is life. Just don't let things consume you....

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 4:07 PM  

  • Really... if it works, why try to fix it ?
    Apparently i'm the only smoker in here and i didnt start smoking just because i wanted to try, i started smoking weed because i NEEDED to float above the mesy world i was living in, i smoke regular cigarettes everyday, it's really not something you wanna get into for no reason...
    The drinks ? cocktails are nice, really, really nice... so you can have one from time to time, they really taste good !

    By Blogger Soldier, at 10:18 PM  

  • you're good man to have the self-control for so long to do participate in sex, drinking alcohol and smoking anything...I won't say that you're a goody-goody boy because of it. I just think that it's not your style and that's good...do you.

    By Blogger ProfessorGQ, at 2:22 PM  

  • Um how about this.

    So what you've never had a drink, thats what makes you UNIQUE. Just because everyone else is doing it, doesn't mean you have to start...or whatever the reason is.

    Try it once, if you like it okay, if you don't okay. Trust me you're not missing anything. Bad habits are hard to shake. Smoking makes your lips black and skin all ashy.

    Drinking makes you puffy, makes you look tired around the eyes. Plus with your size and weight...you can only handle so much drank! Be cautious, you don't want to be callin Earl anytime soon.

    But the flip side of it is, everyone has self control, it is up to them whether or not they excerise it!

    By Blogger Trent Jackson, at 10:29 AM  

  • Aint nuthin wrong with being a good boy, baba. Good boys are still in high demand. It's a well kept secret.

    By Blogger Essequibo, at 5:50 PM  

  • I would definitely say if it doesn't feel like the right time for you, DON'T DO IT!! Peer pressure or because everyone else around you has it not sufficient cause to do something that has no benefits for you. Now I am really sounding like the oldster here, but I see too many young people who regret not holding out against intercourse, drinking, smoking and all kinds of vices. Moreover, they didn't get the experience they were expecting. If you never taste alcohol or smoke and you still feel good about yourself, that is all that matters.
    Shem hotep!

    By Blogger fratman1906, at 8:47 PM  

  • Once you've had about 1000 drinks, it loses its luster. Just drink for the first couple of times with people you know and its cool. Because you will definitely feel weird.

    Smoking-- who needs the lung problems? I'd rather drink.

    But I would suggest getting a retired lush to guide you through the drinking process. Do it somewhere where you're comfortable with everyone.

    And whatever you do, don't bother buying drinks at the club!! Waste of money and it doesn't even taste like a real drink should. Strangely enough, I actually blogged about this several days ago.

    By Blogger jameil1922, at 3:10 AM  

  • I feel, I feel you...same boat here.

    By Blogger mytruth, at 9:25 AM  

  • your thoughts expressed within this post, often cross my mind... but i have never once picked up the bottle or a rolled piece of paper, but you know it is a record that i will be glad to boast about in 70 years....i can't say its hard though, i have been down and out but have never had become a force within myself to resist the urge to engage in these activities... hmmmmm

    By Blogger P. Alonzo Harris Jr., at 10:15 AM  

  • Yo man you are cool. Don't be pressed to do either. I have never done drugs and I didn't start to drink until I was 23. So even now I am never pressed to have a drink.

    By Blogger No4real4real, at 5:09 PM  

  • Not smoking or drinking, and never having done so, is something to be proud of.

    By Blogger ProfessorB, at 5:14 PM  

Post a Comment

<< Home

Free Counters
Thanks for Visiting!

Powered by Blogger